Welcome to Down To There®, where we give you the tools to debunk myths around sex and relationships, and in the process, help you increase your capacity for physical and emotional intimacy.
Helping the world talk more openly about sex and intimacy.
From girl next door to trained sex & relationship coach
Pamela Joy, M.A. left her high-tech career at Apple and Facebook to found Down To There® to help the world talk more openly about sex and intimacy.
Through her writing, coaching and speaking, she works collaboratively and experientially with clients to increase their capacity for emotional and physical intimacy.
Her TEDx talk “Reclaiming Female Sexual Desire” has over 2M views and celebrates the positive impact of peer support on sexual health.
Pamela Joy, M.A. is a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach (CSC) and has a Masters in Counseling Psychology with over 1,500 hours of additional training in the field of sexuality through the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR), the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH), the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI) and various sex therapists including Melissa Fritchle, LMFT, Peggy Kleinplatz, Ph.D., Sara Nasserzadeh, Ph.D. and Esther Perel, LMFT.
She is trauma-informed, trained in Process Therapy at the Process Therapy Institute and has taught at Esalen. In addition to her general marriage and family therapy training, her education includes a focus on marginalized populations including LGTBQ+ communities.
You can learn more about the free resources that she offers here or by contacting her directly at pamela@downtothere.com.
