Do you struggle with knowing or communicating how you feel and what you need emotionally or physically? Are you caught in a negative cycle with your partner? Do you have a good relationship, but want to make it even better? Are you experiencing low desire, erectile dysfunction or challenges with some other aspect of your sexuality or sexual function?

As a sex and relationship coach, I help couples and individuals explore how challenges in relationship can offer unexpected pathways to increased intimacy and connection. My approach is collaborative and experiential which means rather than just talking about what is going on, I’ll offer suggestions during our sessions to try something different in the moment to see what can be learned. I don’t believe there is any one right way to be in relationship, but I am interested in helping you discover what is uniquely right for you.

There are currently three separate ways to work with me. You can join one of my monthly online circles for women or men, or join one of my online groups for couples or individuals, or work with me privately.

Monthly online Down To There™ circles

Join others from around the world for my monthly hour-long circles. We’ll share our experiences around a topic related to sex and relationships, followed by Q&A. Circles are hosted using the Zoom app, with all attendees wearing headphones, with audio and video on. Registration options below.

8-week online Down To There™ groups

This 8 week series will explore how to connect with and improve your emotional and physical intimacy skills. Participants will gain a greater understanding of how to connect with their own desire, how to share that desire with a partner in a way that is more likely to be reciprocated, and how to have great sex for a lifetime. Group size will be a minimum of 8 and maximum of 12. Pricing includes initial hour-long private session to determine whether the group is right for you. Have questions? Email me at pam@downtothere.com.

Private coaching

I am available for private coaching for couples and individuals out of my Cupertino office (75 minutes) and also over Skype (60 minutes). Sessions are $325, payable by credit card at time of booking. I currently see clients on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays from 8:30am to 5:30pm PST. If you are interested in coaching, please reach out to me at pam@downtothere.com.