Welcome to Down To There®, where we give you the tools to debunk myths around sex and relationships, and in the process, help you increase your capacity for physical and emotional intimacy.
Receive support from an expert on your journey to more pleasure, more intimacy and more connection.
3-Episode Video Series (FREE)
Looking for ideas to explore pleasure, intimacy and connection in the privacy of your own home? “The Art Of” video series is made just for you!
In “The Art of Getting Turned On”, Pamela Joy, M.A. shares the most important sex education ‘aha moments’ from her client sessions, along with simple and practical exercises that you can do on your own or with a partner to get more pleasure, more intimacy and more connection.
Episode 1 - Acknowledging Myths
Episode 2 - Saying “Hello” to your Genitals
Episode 3 - Understanding How Desire Works
Private Coaching Referrals (FREE)
Tried unsuccessfully to overcome a negative cycle with your partner? Unable to find a solution for low desire or erectile dysfunction? Want the help of an expert to figure out, communicate and get more of what you want emotionally and physically in your relationship?
Private coaching sessions are a great way to transform relationship challenges into pathways for increased intimacy and connection. With the expert help of a sex and relationship coach or therapist, you’ll get the support you need to make the changes you are looking for.
While Pamela is currently on sabbatical for an indeterminant length of time with her snuggly newborn, she highly recommends checking out this list of wonderful coaches.
Down To There® Circles (FREE)
Wish you could talk to your friends about sex, but not quite sure how to get started? Down To There® circle guidelines are a free resource with ideas for how to invite friends, tips for how to structure the conversation for success, as well as discussion prompts and resources.
Research shows that women who talk to their friends about sex have less stress, easier access to desire and arousal and are more satisfied with their sex life. Additionally, talking with your friends about sex will improve your ability to talk to your partner and your kids about sex too!